dear friends,
iam back after long break. actually my breaks come to an end. and suddenly when i open my eyes i found myself in Abu Dhabi...uhhhh..not joy full at all....... My vacation was started on 18 july 2011,was suppose to end on 11 sept,but due to some reason it extended till sept month end. In these 2 months i gain lots of experience in many grounds..i found new relations in old friends..some changed ..some make me changed..

From whom  expected lots have disappointed me ,and from whom i didn’t expect much have make me feel special.. any ways. in these 2 months  travelled a lot..for example i being to my sister house. visited my niece who is in Bhubaneswar, visited to couple of zoo also..hahahhaha..iam serious...i still remember how  i covered the journey of  180 km sharing one seat with my brother in law in our white ambassador..still my other half is in pain......

i was also very much busy in shifting house ,as my father retired, and we  had move to a rented  house. but somehow i manage time for my one and only friend there Mr. ratanesh pandey ,and we visit the most famous tea stall in our town( Japan dhaba) .We always drink tea there and expect may be next time the tea will be good  but........u know..........................................................................................
There under the tree i also try to puff some cigarettes borrowing from pandey but i end up coughing..(don’t be hyper iam not a smoker.just tried)....moving around my town whole day with my friend was only favorite pass time. but as you all know that nothing stays for ever ,same way.my vacation come to  an end ,yes I must also share one thing that It was very difficult for me to find a train from my place to Delhi before 30 sept.as I was having my flight on 30 sept  at 8.15 pm.but some how I manage to grab ticket of Bhubaneswar  rajdhani  from Tata to new delhi by rajdhani express


Trains were my first love before computers. And rajdhani was my dream train to board once in my life, every time when I use to visit Kolkata I use to stair to this red and yellow rajdhani standing in the platform’s always use to guess how it would be inside. what would be the feeling….??????

Finally the day arrived,me my dad n mom,boarded  ispat express from rajgangpur station in the morning around 10.50 am. It was bright sunny day.train took 3 hour to reach Tata station. my train was at 3.50 pm…still there was 1 hour left.rajdhani was coming on platform 3.but we were on 5 .so we move to platform 3 and grabe a chair .for our self.but with every annoucment .rajdhani was getting delayed.now iam sad to depart from my family but I was happy somewhere inside .becouse iam going to board my favourite train........finally my train arrived.

Same day when I got up in the morning ,my left eye  was bit swollen ,but I was not so serious about it. after having my dinner, went for sleep ,when I got up in the morning .i couldn’t open my left eyelid, it  was fully closed….and pain was un bearable .every one watching my eye.i was just lying  in my bed, and hoping to get all rite.  .i reached delhi around 10.30 am ,I asked my frivnd to pick me up..but when I reached delhi,  after thathe started from his house, and I cant stand long time in the sun, my eye getting  worse by every passing time.
Finally my friend arrived ,and we moved towards his house to sarita vihar..very less time was left with me for my flight., I was asked to come 3 hours before, don’t know why. around 4.30pm me and my friend came out from his house to hire taxi..auto. but we cannot find any one of them. at last one auto ready to go and charged 300 rs,we reached airport at 5,40pm .,after  seeing off my friend I went inside for check-in., my eyes was also troubling a lot. but what to do.. my flight was from gate number 26A ,at 8.15pm,,around 8 pm there was an announcement that flight was delayed by 1 hour..around 9.30 pm I borad the plane..my seat was centre among the three seater.onside.one younger keralite,and other side old bihari.

My goodness he snore like a pig, felt so irritated, but no option to change seat., when he was about to tear  the milk sachet for making tea, he spill all the powder milk on his face and on my side ehhehehehehheh I was so angry..with all these I don’t know when I slept,. and I wake up with the the announcement by airhostess that we about to land abu dhabiii……ohhh back to work..

Ok friends see you all soon with some more pages from my life......

social network < commercial network

Introduction: definition of social network from our point of view:

Dear friends

Today we believe in writing  our status on social networks more than sharing with our friends in real…we make relations on networks,,we break relations on networks..so are these social networks really bringing us closer or taking us apart ???.,

  Do u remember those old time..when we used to depend on letters, pen friends, get-together,..parties..social meets,..reunion functions.????.how we used to enjoy when we meet any old friends of ours..wow!!!..and if we know that we are going to see someone after so long ,we used to wait eagerly for those moments to come.but now,…… all those excitements, those thrills and mad ness are controlled and revolving within these social networks.

Now we express our love, our grief , sadness and happiness via these medium..even our happiness like marriage and child birth , are also preferred to be shared with these sites then sharing with word of mouth.

Now when we meet people in real and make friends..we invite them to one of the social networks..so as to continue the relation .

I have seen relation built on those sites...went long..and than broken apart..even before they meet .

Even I was so confused because I was also too much addicted to these networks….is it leading me to a situation when i will be having more faith in someone’s  few written words  than the person in real??

 From the news room

I would like to share about an incident which I came to know after reading an article few days back…..where one girl from Bangalore killed herself because her boyfriend wrote in his status of facebook, that he is going to break off with that girl, because they had an argument.

That girl was pursuing IIM..and she was also an alumini of IIT. Now do you think our relations are so weak that we trust so much to these networks and decide our destiny just by reading someone’s status...

What is our real motive ?:


Some social networks claims ”we bring friends together”..I agree, but now situation is that if we check our friends list, we will find that the list of friend is more than we ever know them in real life...sometimes we invite someone ,, because..we like their profile pics sometimes we invite someone because we saw them somewhere in past…. in someone party , sometime we do invite because they are single.. Within days you can see relationship changing from single to engaged, then divorced,...and again single…….oh so confusing .

Also sometimes we accept friendship because someone sent friend request to you or just because, you like him or her….

Who are your friends… real friends?

So if you check your friend request we will find that out of 100% ,,,  30% will be those friends whom you really know.

More than 30 % will those who are your friends because u know through your friends..around 30% will be those whom you have accepted because either u like them or you yourself don't know why we add, and rest 10 % are those who are still waiting to be your friend by sending you friend request......

CONCLUSION

But by reading my blog you guys will feel , as if I am against all these social networks., but the answer is no!! because sometimes I  find myself too ,to be so addicted to it.

But if u pause n think then u will find yourself that emotions, feelings, and joy,,, are over powered by web world..things and thinking  are getting more worse then this…this is just a beginning.

Now we cannot blame these sites completely, because its up to us,how we are influenced by this sites,and how much priority we give in our life to these. for example ..it can be a place to pass time. for some one as dating sites, for some one as a match maker..for some one a place to search lost friends. for some ..its nothing. but , they open account because tats the new trend in market.

WE ARE CLOSED VIRTUALLY BUT  WAY APART EMOTIONALLY.

If you disagree with me please comment

( Dear reader ,iam  not a writer ,but trying to put my feelings and thought in writing to you all).

This chart will show you which year how many social network come into existence.

 
From this chart you can know that social network come into existence as a revolution,though it was minimal in 1997 till 2002,but after 2002 till 2006 its spread like cancer.social networks become commercial networks

blogging for beginners: The Interesting Stories Behind Brand Names

blogging for beginners: The Interesting Stories Behind Brand Names: Adidas- Adidas is often thought of as the acronym for “All Day I Dream About Sports”. The brand name is actually derived from the founder ...

The Interesting Stories Behind Brand Names

Adidas- Adidas is often thought of as the acronym for “All Day I Dream About Sports”. The brand name is actually derived from the founder of the company, Adolf Dassler. “Adi” stands for Adolf and “Das” stands for Dassler.

Adobe- This software giant got its name from a river! Unbelievable, but true! Adobe’s co- founder, John Warnock’s house is beside the Adobe Creek River in California.

Google- The mighty Google is well-known to everyone, but do you know how the name came into being? The company wanted to patent the word “Googol” as their brand name. “Googol” is a number number that means 1 followed by 100 zeros. “Google” was actually a spelling mistake.

Apple- Apple’s logo design has nothing to do with the type of products the company manufactures. Why is the half-eaten apple then used as their logo? Newton discovered gravity when he saw an apple falling from a tree. The Apple logo stands for motivation for new innovation.

Nike- Nike was derived from the “Greek goddess of victory”. That’s why they use the ‘swoosh’ in their logo’s design. The tick also personifies victory.

Toyota- This world famous Japanese car manufacturer got its name from its founder, Sakichi Toyoda, whose surname was initially used as the brand name, but was later, changed to “Toyota”. The word Toyota uses eight letters of the Japanese alphabets. Eight is the lucky number in Japan. The company wanted to give their brand name both numerological luck and a ringing sound for universal appeal.

Coca Cola- We love to drink Coca Cola, but how many of us really know what the name stands for? The secret lies in the recipe for this popular beverage, which uses coca leaves and kola nuts. Coca-Cola maker, John S. Pemberton, changed the spelling of “kola” into “cola” to create the famous brand name “Coca Cola”.

Hotmail- Hotmail is based on HTML and the company wanted to give it a name that will sound like HTML and have the word “mail” at the end. They finally selected the name “HoTMaiL”, but later changed the word casing and made it “Hotmail”.

Mercedes- Emil Jellineks, the man behind this company, patented the car’s engine after his daughter, Mercédès Jellinek.

               


    BlackBerry – They wanted to steer clear of the term email because that word increased clients’ blood pressure. So they chose BlackBerry because the device’s buttons looked like seeds, the word is pleasing to the ear, and the device was black




                


    Facebook – A facebook is a directory with photos and basic information. Changed from TheFacebook.com to Facebook.com after they acquired the domain in 2005 for $200,000


                   
      HP – Named after their founders, Bill Hewlett and Dave Packard. They tossed a coin to determine if the company would be named Hewlett-Packard or Packard-Hewlett. Packard won the coin toss but chose to leave it as Hewlett-Packard

                      
   IBM – Coined in 1924, IBM is an acronym for International Business Machines.




                       
            IKEA – An acronym from the founder’s name and the Swedish village in which he grew up: Ingvar Kamprad, Elmtaryd Agunnaryd.


                    
  Skype – Originally Sky-Peer-to Peer, then Skyper, and finally Skype

                         
   Volkswagen – Literally means people’s car. Adolf Hitler developed the idea for a “cars for the masses” program that later became Volkswagen

maheshwar barik- Now what to say about this. even the inventor(god) of this machine is confuse...after making it ..and thought "oh god what i made by mistake". This product  Not yet launched.










enjoy......................................

dear bloggers

dear friends,
Not much but still iam posting blogs in regular intervals,but i have no comments from any of my readers,though i know i have visitors all the time.so i request to all my readers,,if u like or dislike my blog,please comment.so that i can improve.

how to make your blog popular

Dear friends

Everyday hundreds,thousands of us decide to blog.many of

us do blog.but how many blogs are popular ,how many are viewed by the world around, percentages are very less my dear

friends.same as if a good food is not garnished well, or not named well..hardly any one will try.

after goggling,browsing,and searching the web, i come to 

conclusion that maximum searched word is blog and life.And we lack in three R

1. rite website name
2. rite title to contents
3. rite subject

• Rite website name is very very important.that is your id card.from that readers wills come to know about you, they will contact you. so its required  to be eye-catching or you can can( love at first site)and also included with word blog.you can choose any name which is   humorous ,funny,attractive. for example
• bloggers park
• blogie man
• blog oogle
• blog no9
• blog on the dance floor
• blog book
• blog bank
• Rite title is second most important after the website.if you ask my suggestion ,website name and title need to me same as much as possible.if you choose a title please make sure its have words like blog,bloggers,beginning,dummies,.etc.it should relate your website.

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 dear friends,
 How many times it happened ,your personal computer(desktop) given trouble to you or how many times your computer crashed. Some times the reason can be small,but some time reason can be big. what  if you know what happen to your computer ,and you can solve and trouble- shoot the problem  by your self   isn't good????


So my today's blog is about " learn how to repair your personal computer" by your self, and save your money on costly repairs, even you can open your small scale backyard businesss.
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ONE PAGE FROM MY SCHOOL DIARY

1985 was the year..when i walk with my father.holding his little finger..wearing white canvas shoes..grey sweater ..grey pant..to mission school for first time..............no idea..where iam going..but was happy..for my red water bottle....my superman school bag on my back...and...nice food in my bag...for me it was not less then a picnic..............................................

         But soon my dream comes to an end.....the way was not to picnic..but to

 something called school( dalmia vidya mandir)...a mid age old man standing on the gate with a stick...with big moustache....watching .me going inside ..i remembered..i turn around ...and see that guy as many time as possible.....

i must mention..i was also accompanied by my first friend of my life..gyan(sikun)

he was too on same mission school..accompanied by his grand father...he was crying a lot...i have no idea...why ? but iam sure he was having  an idea..where he going  much before then me......

when i entered the school..i see many others same wearing me....some crying..some running away...some struggling with teachers..some with our giri bhaiya.....now i start feeling something wrong going to happen with me......

holding my hand..my father too me to a class room on extreme end of the classes..which all use to say nursery.....i can see there were extra army of teachers present out their the class to hold us from going away from the class..

he handed my hand to a lady ..much much taller then me..she our vidya teacher....i can still remember her..her love for each student...she was not married..but she was our mother..in there...

she was the lady who teach me A for apple.......B for ball...who teach me what my name means...and how to rite it.........i still remember my continuous wetting my pants...and ...every time making me nanga ..and make me  stand in sun to dry.ahahhaha

"wow full insulting...other student watching.but..no noticeeeee........." my life was like phas gaya re barik.....

but days past...from one class to other we move...with classes..we also start growing.......behind my class there was a slider...in my tiffin..break ..i use to go there and watch other students sliding on that..that make me so happy...one day finally i decided to do my self..as i was small..so i was close to the side railing while sliding..when i slide down..i feel cold back side.hahahahha

yes you got it...a small piece of my pant was still there in the slider...i..pull down my over size pullover.so tat it covers my moon....

i told my mother. .. my pant torn..

i was having one more in .spare..so i wear that and go.next day..i was decided i wont slide any more but..when i see other guys enjoying..i cant wait..and i go again..and again my pant torn......

my mother was so angry to me....after that my father buy me other pair of pants .but now i never slide again.........................

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7 best days in guwahati

I don't remember  if i was sad or shocked ...so badly of any thing happen in my life.......but something happened......

i don't remember if my eyes were wet for some one who left this world so sudden

but yes i do........

he is no more between us..he is no more ..around us.......but he was ...and he is  within us.....

today i called avinash ....to ask about something..and he said...mahesh..you know..bikash dad is no more.....???

for a while i don't believe if he took bikash name or some one else..

for some time i don't believe my ears if i heard..what he said....

but it was true.today ..one of my best friend bikash lost his father........

i woke up with the sound of water falling  from the running tape in the kitchen...it was cold winter in Delhi....the floor was chilled like an ice sheet...all three in same blanket..sleep together..on the floor..watching towards the one and only window  in the room..n waiting for the sun to rise....

me..avinash ..and bikash stay together..i use to work in shangri-la hotel..avinash in cafe coffee day..and bikash also in shangri-la hotel but different out-let..

i never being to guwahati after the exams ....but there was something still i left behind...so i asked bikash ...hie bro iam planning to go guwahati in this vacation..what u thing..but problem is i don't know any one there,,who can accommodate me..there..

bikash listening this he invited me to his house in guwahati..he said don't you worry u just go..my uncle will pick you from air port.

 so planned and i shoot for guwahati..i went in indigo,airlines.it was also my first time in aeroplane..so i was excited in many ways.

after i reached guwahati..i come out from airport..bikash uncle was waiting for me out....i can still remember his smile ..he was on his face while looking and waiting for me..
so in his bike we head towards his house..when i reached..bikash ..house.i was welcomed by bikash dad...and mom as if..iam there second son......it was good feeling inside.
bikash have have two little sweet sister.. chinki..and tutu...as cute as there name..
they cared me so...much i sure...no one can expect from a unknown family..they took me too bikash bedroom...it was nice and comfortable...everybody was busy doing there best for my comfort...
i can still remember those days of 2006..............................................................................................................................
i was shy....but they never let me uncomfortable..in there little world....bikash uncle was my only friend there.......he was so sweet..and kind...bikash younger sister tutu..ahahahaha.what should i write about her...first time i missed one younger sister looking at her..she was so innocent.....out of 10 things ..she use to ask me 8 times about her brother bikash..
chinki..bikash other younger sis...quite by nature..but talk much with her eyes..from first day her eyes was in my very small miniature bible..which i get from Chennai..


aunty.. bikash mom..if i close my eyes n remember her,,then her dimples..when smile...and her habit of asking always..mohes khana acha hai????.........now if i take about bikash dad..my writing will never ends....he was in Assam police...but by looking at him..or by his talk u wont ever feel..he is in police..so decent ..soft spoken...a friend at the age of above 50...i have see lots of care and love for bikash in his eyes..


he use to said..i just want my son..happy..let him do..what ever he likes..till he happy...when ever he use to talk about bikash..he use to say..my bikash....wow i love that..dad son love..looking at bikash love for his dad and his dad love for bikash..my respect for my parents grow more...
i was there for only 3 days .but i spent 7 days due to there love and care..that family was very simple..but very rich at love...for others and each other within the family...
the day come when i was living from there..i see tears.in eyes of all .....that very sad moment for me....i never felt ..i was out of my family..for those 7 days.i forget all for those 7 days of my life in guwahati.....i don't know  why i was crying when i don't want to for some unknown...after going for a while .in a curve i lost that house...that love...and those beautiful people...for ever.....

"WHAT DO U THINK OF YOUR SELF"

hello friends ,with my title you must be thinking,what type of title is this,but not to keep you waiting,i must say ,i hear this lines on my very first day of my career in hotel industry as a waiter...............

i was always confused with the selection of my career...what course i should take,,were should i study.......

As my father was from mechanical line..who was an engineer by profession.. always used to ask me,,to go for engineering...but i know if i go for engineering i 

have to study science...which was again a nightmare for me..

So i choose for commerce...i was not bright student.but i was confident that i can handle commerce..

everything was going well till i met with a girl name "rainy "...she was from my home town..my friend best friend.

we keep meeting  in my friend house.....with time ..we liked ...n we fall in love..

the love was so intense that..i want to stay with her as fast as possible..actually i want to marry her...but that need jobbbbbb..

'

I look every were.ask every one..n come to conclusion that" hotel management is the only one which can give me  jobs .

We both of us join hotel management...the institute was trade wing (institute of management)

it was 1 year diploma course.....with only 12 students in it...

i was so much dissolved in love..that i never bother to understand actual value of hotel management.

for me hotel management was= coat+tie+money+glamour.

after one year we have to go for 6 month  compulsory training( industrial exposure ),..after some struggle i got selected in one three star hotel name"Mayfair garden...i was always interested to become a chef..so i start my training with kitchen,,it was one big kitchen...where Chinese(Indian style) cooked by  south Indian chef..hahaha funny na... Indian..continental(only sandwich n soup)...anyways i started my training with Chinese kitchen..it was 

quite small..but...one goal was set in my head so...nothing was bothering me..........

aim on impression that I will be treated well..hahahhaha...but my chef ask me to peel 1 sack of onions....gave me chef coat with no buttons...i cannot ask for  more as my chef have only two of them....so whole day i peel onions,,carry rice bags..clean vegetables...clean floor,tables.....never worked so much in my house also..but what to do..need to become chef.....next day again i start with peeling onions.....cleaning vegetables,,cutting them,,,or cleaning the section....that make me really depressed... because i want everything in life with lighting fast.......

so i  started coming late on shift......one day my GM caught me coming late....he said those golden words to me what u think of your self was......

are you the owner of the hotel??????

i said sir i cannot take it any more ,,please transfer to me in food and beverage service dept..and he did.....next day i was asked to report Mr pandey....our f&b manager..he put me in a restaurant......my job was to wipe cutlery...wipe glasses...clear table..resetting table..filling water jugs..but no chance was given to interact with the guest.

All my senior waiters were above 40 yrs,of age with big potbelly....who cant even run if guest call them..i see them only smiling when..any guest about to tip them..

among them i was 19 yrs old waiter.......seems  as if in tractor one Tyre is scooter and one is of tractor it self....

but not much option left with me as.i was  in my choosed profession.

i was been embarrassed..many time by guest..as i was new to this industry..i was also been embarrassed in how to pour beer in a glass...faced anger of my seniors ,, because of folding napkin..laying table..almost all the thing i do......


There was a very funny incident happen with me which,changed my view for hotel industry...i was assigned in a family restaurant,...it was bright sunny Sunday afternoon......


Restaurant was busy...as well as we too..so there was one Indian family may be 8 or 9 pax total of them....there order was big...i was handling there table...
due to busy order,,kitchen was too busy..so there was delay in serving food to most of the tables..but especially my table was very much in hurry for his food,....he was keep on asking me where is my food??? where is my food?


that make me very angry ..i shouted him back ...saying we got only two hands..to serve ..as u have two hand eat.....and its take time....your not only guest seated in the restaurant....
hahahha,,those  words ,really make him crazy ,,and he complained about me to my F&B Manager
due to this i was  transferred to banquet from the restaurant.....
working in banquet is not easy..specially in marriages when u have go behind the small kids..not to mess around.
one more incident i remember..in banquet...
there was a marriage ceremony for a Punjabi family

in the night there was dance program in the hall number 2...

we were ready ....so party starts...all enjoying...i can see my captain.. snicking whiskey under the table...........before guest ..my fellow waiters were getting drunk...so i saw that there was some confusion between the guest...regarding which music to play for dancing...i was so much into the party ..i said"excuse me sir..daler mahendi ka gana achha hoga..?..guest looking at me ..with anger he said..hello who asked  your  suggestion...what do u think of your self...."..later i understood....my profession..is all about serving..others..and making them happy.....but friends...till this time...my
attitude.. arrogance...was also most on the edge of extinction..... 

again i was transferred to room service.....making bed...getting food to the room..was some more additional duties in my job...
but one day......i was doing my regular duties..and i went to one of the rooms to serve coffee....i saw a very gentle person...reading news paper.....so i wished him and serve him the coffee...so i just asked him,..sir where u from..and what bring you here???
he said" Iam from kolkata..and Am a pilot......
he asked me ..Iam so young ..and enthusiastic ,,why Iam spoiling my career..in there.......so he asked me to join ihm(institute of hotel management. govt of India).......


after some time i left the hotel......and i was known what to do  NEXT..


so like this i begin my career...and aim proud of what Iam................